06 Feb Valentine’s Day Gifts for the Unusual Her – Accessories Guide
Yes, February the 14th shouldn’t be a date, is should be a manner. All the girls practice this new-age theory, or to be exact, ask of their boys to indulge them in this fashion. But let’s be honest – after months of being showered with flowers, books and little declarations of love, girls expect their Valentine’s gift to be perfect. And those with the tiniest shred of experience know how impossible the concept is.
If this is the year you have finally decided to give up on fireworks, carriages and other very cinematic pledges of your eternal devotion, (or you’ve simply run out of them), and gathered all of your manly courage for the trip into the unknown land of feminine fashion, there are still some things you should be aware of. First of all, not all girls are crazy about lingerie and diamonds. On the contrary, such gift can make you look pretentious. It’s always better to take a little time to observe your lady’s style and pick something with her name on it, but with a little unexpected twist. The key is always in the details, so try to avoid fashion items that she already owns and usually wears. So, if you have nothing on your mind, one of the following suggestions will certainly put a smile on her face.
Kimono Robe
It has already been said that seductive lingerie won’t buy every girl, but that doesn’t mean you can’t toy with the category. In fact, fashionable lingerie doesn’t cover only bras and panties as expected. The field is a little wider, and includes some equally sexy items. A kimono robe, for instance, is a piece of lady-wear boys are not familiar with enough. Well, it is definitely something you would like to see your chosen one wear with nothing underneath – actually, a kimono robe is designed for such purposes. Naturally, you wouldn’t want your romantic gift to be too rigid. Consequently, the perfect kimono robe should be short and shiny. They are usually made of smooth materials such as silk, satin and chiffon, which already gives them that luxurious, foxy look. So the only thing you should ponder upon is pattern. That is where you need to know your lady’s style just enough to choose the right design. For most girls, you can’t go wrong with a plain, whole-colored robe, but then you have to know which tint to pick. When in doubt, go with red. It’s perfect for a dominant, independent woman, as well as for a girly girl. Both of them will love black or white as well, since those colors always look elegant and sophisticated. And if it’s a little translucent, how exciting for both of you! If your girl is a little bit hippie, or just romantic, choose chic patterns with flowers and butterflies. If the design is right, a kimono robe will surely delight every gal.
Cape
If your woman is one of class, you should absolutely endow her with a cape. You might not particularly care that this is, in fact, the latest thing in fashion, but she does, and even if she’s not big on following trends, a cape is eternal as it is word-perfect. This astounding piece of clothing comes in a variety of styles, so you can choose one to match both of your tastes. And you don’t have to be afraid if your choice is somewhat bulky, since they are meant to be worn with little black dresses and high heels underneath. If you want your date especially posh, pick rich, voluminous one in a darker hue of red or green. Simple colors like beige, grey or black are ideal for tight black leather pants and pumps (shoes, not a device). If she owns that queen bee quality so tempting in girls, try a cape with a bow neckline, or the one in a soft shade of pink. Since they are usually very simple in design, details like big pockets and a hood are dapper and a little funky. Ultimately, whichever you choose, she will know how to incorporate it in her wardrobe, and you will have one royal lady under your arm each time you take her on a stroll.
Hats
Even if she already has one, a hat is always a winner choice. Considering that their designs are diverse and that each is compatible with a different style, you should, once again, revise your girl’s closet. But even if you stray a little and buy the extravagant fascinator, no harm done, since she will find a way to wear it in her own unique way. That’s the beauty of hats – they are that little over-the-top accessory that makes everyday outfits costume-like. Fedoras, bowlers or even homburgs (check out some of the hat glossaries, they are all over the net) make a great gift for bold, modish girls that like to spice up their jeans-and-shirt outfit with the statement item. If you have fallen for the real life damsel, she will unquestionably love a cloche or a pillbox. Berets are unfailing, and rare is the girl that dislikes them. When you’re choosing the brim width, there is an unwritten rule that wider is sexier. There is real attractiveness about that little flop that makes you wonder about the color of her eyes. And as eye colors go, use them to match the shade of the hat. When it comes to the finishing touch, the elegant satin ribbon is a great pick. Simple, yet vogue.
Hair Jewelry
If both of you are in love with her hair, this is the perfect embellishment. Hair jewelry comes in the array of different types, and all are equally ladylike. As a boy, you are for sure introduced to buckles and hairpins, but what you don’t know is that they can be made in so many different designs that will completely dazzle her eyes. Jewelry is a women’s toy, so however sparkly is your choice, you will do right. You should know that hair pieces are entirely decorative, so you don’t have to worry about the length of your princess’s hair. However, you should pay attention to the color of the hair, because some striking designs can seem a little childish with certain hair styles. Also, hair jewelry goes a little beyond what you already know about it. Tiaras, crowns and hair chains can be delicate and graceful with a little bit of Game of Thrones seasoning. Still, if you decide to give them a go, choose as less color as possible. Cascading chains with little gold leaves are refined and lovely, and they don’t need additional rocks or huge ornaments. For suave girls who are not afraid to emphasize their uniqueness, such present is the ultimate one.
Ear Cuffs
Again, something you are probably a stranger to. However quirky its name might be, ear cuff is nothing more than an extended earring. The only difference is that it doesn’t extend to the neck, but in the opposite direction, to the upper part of the ear. In the older days, ear cuffs were very much punk, but today, they are being worn with elegant gowns and suits, and they can be of various fashions. Eccentric girls will very much appreciate staggering cuffs in the shape of snakes, dragons and wings. Feathers and leaves are also hugely popular, but since ear cuffs are definitely for the fashion-forward girls that don’t take themselves too seriously, keep it a little simpler and more tasteful, just to be sure. Plain strings of tiny pearls or zircons arranged in star constellations are the lucky charm for every girl with a jewelry box. Once more, keep it low on tint, and choose gold or silver. Gems in neutral color are gorgeous, and there isn’t a girl in the world that wouldn’t like to try them just for once. Emma Watson wears them, so that should convince you. For cool girls, ear cuffs are the new version of Tiffany diamonds.
Babydolls
If the prospect of lingerie shopping on Valentine’s Day still excites you, then search for the tantalizing little babydoll. When this particular piece of underwear is in question, the tenderer it looks, the more seductive it is. Delicate shades of peach and the light brownish color of skin are insanely feminine and endearing. If you choose black, lace is unavoidable, and it is romantic as it is sensual. Babydolls are by definition translucent, so there isn’t a need for more vivid colors. Yellow, pink and red can look great on some girls, but it’s always better to lower down the hue. That way, you can experiment with ruffles, bows and ribbons. Babydolls usually come with matching panties, if they are shorter or very transparent, but that will be one more enjoyment for you to browse. Of course, you should always pay attention to the bra size, since some designs come with the support on the upper part. If you are indecisive, it’s always smarter to choose a babydoll without it, since they are made to be comfortable and liberating anyway. To make the outfit complete, you can pick sleek satin stockings. And however enthralling it gets, try not to go wild, since the present is first and foremost for the dame’s gratification. When picked with thoughtfulness and taste, lingerie can be exhilarating both for the lady and the gentleman.
Themed Accessories
When all else fails, accessories with a background story are the smartest choice. Accessories include basically everything, from bags to shoes, the only trick is that you’ll have to customize them according to the Miss’s preference. But since you already know and love everything about her, that shouldn’t be too hard. For instance, if she is the book aficionado, you can surprise her with a chain necklace with a little typing machine for a pendant. Even better, you can imprint a page from her favorite book to the bag or a scarf, so she can always carry it around. Band name tees are eternal, but you can go further in exploring her devotion to a certain musician, and assemble an item no one else has. Every little girl was once enchanted with a fairytale, a Disney move or a fictional character, so you can sweep her out of her feet with a gift like a Mad Hatter ring, a Together in Paris medallion from Anastasia or Rose Tyler’s Tardis key. But nothing speaks romance like a present customized with little details from your mutual past. Engrave the very first thing you have said to her on the day you have met, or the verse from a song that played in the background for the first time you have made love, on a ring, on the inside of a locket, or make it into a typography bracelet. It will warm her heart to the fullest, and she will be amazed how much you pay attention.
Finally, whatever you choose to be this year’s Valentine’s gift, remember that it should be a token of your affection. If you manage to recall her favorite color, the story she once told about her childhood or the quote that inspires her and succeed in somehow subsuming it into the present, it will make her cheeks blush in the loveliest shade of rose. Ultimately, that shade is what gift-giving is all about.
